Everyone needs self-confidence in life. If you know how to think like confident people will impact every your life aspects positively.
There're many life examples show that self-confidence can influence you a lot, even in the field that you've mastered.
For examples, someone who is talented to be a singer could be singing out of tune on the stage due to lack of self-confidence.
Someone who knows how to play basketball can be like a dumb when his dream woman visits his basketball competition.
All examples above reveal that they're not always confident in themselves. They can be wonderful when they're doing things alone.
However, when they're in the surrounding which is not familiar they'll start to perform abnormally.
Successful people have solid self-confidence. This is because they never worry about the self-confidence problems, instead they're busy in building their dream life.
The difference between successful and unsuccessful people is successful people always focus on their dream whereas unsuccessful people focus on their faults.
Genuine successful people can be successful again even if you take away all their achievement. In contrast, unsuccessful people will never be successful again.
The distinction between them is their mindset. Your thoughts are your world. If you have a success mindset, you can be naturally successful even if you're not deliberately to do so.
In contrast, if you've the wrong mindset and false beliefs, then you'll be a failure disregard how hard you've worked.
Therefore, if you want to be successful, then you must know how confident people think. Below are the six ways of how confident people think, apply them in your life will positively impact your life.
Confident people don't think about fear when they're dealing with something difficult, instead they think about the courage. And they focus on figuring out the ways to solve the problem.
If you can't get rid of the fear feeling, then here is a solution - understand your fears. Get out a pen and a paper, and then write down exactly what you're afraid of. You must know why you're afraid before you can eliminate it.
Make a list of your fears, and ask yourself 'Why?' for each fear. And keep asking `why?' until you get some answers.
After figuring out your fears, understand that they're your limiting beliefs. These beliefs are the barriers that holding you back to become confident, replace them with empowering beliefs that'll bring you the courage.
A role model is very important for you to examine yourself are you doing the wrong way.
For example, you have a role model who has self-confidence personality. When you're facing a problem, think if he is you, what would he do when facing the same problem as yours.
Do your actions similar to the actions of your role model in your imagination? If you still don't have a role model, then find one now.
Find someone you appreciate and have personalities that worth for you to learn, don't simply pick someone as your role model merely because of his appearance.
A confident person will not ignore the flaws in himself instead he will fix them as much as he can. This doesn't mean confident people always focus on their flaws and take them very seriously. Their mindset has only one, which is improving themselves become better and better constantly.
In contrast, an unconfident person focuses on his flaws, he will use his flaws as excuses for instance "I can't get a girlfriend because I'm not handsome." And even tries to escape from the flaws to avoid facing his self-worth.
Whereas a confident person will try to fix his flaws, for example above, he'll try to change his appearance by cleaning his face daily, buy nice and suitable clothes and get a new hair style. After all, he will also learn the way how to improve his attractiveness.
Develop more and more life skills, the more skills you master, the more confident you become. A confident person is attractive. See also: 10 kinds of self-confidence that attract women
Confident people will always keep reminding themselves of their strength point. This is one of the ways to create empowering beliefs.
If you keep reminding yourself of your weakness point, you'll convince your mind to believe that you're truly weak and vulnerable. Once you believe you're not capable to do something, you'll never be able to do that.
A confident person will collect the positive comments and compliments about himself and repeat them to himself. Due to self-affirmation he knows people appreciate his abilities.
And doing so will install the beliefs that he's good, so he's confident.
You can write down the compliments said to you in a notebook and read them every night. You will certainly increase your self-confidence if you do this.
Confident people don't give any weight to the opinion of others because they know most people's opinions don't make sense at all.
Confident people's self-confidence is come from within their heart, whereas unconfident people's self-confidence is from external— how people see them, do people agree with them, their wealth, social status, etc.
Those people whose self-confidence comes from the external world don't have solid self-confidence. Therefore, they're sensitive to other's judgments, criticisms, and rejections and easy to change their thoughts to suit with the people around.
If you want to be confident, you have to think like confident people.
Believe in yourself, even if the world doesn't believe you. See also: Dealing with rejection
Confident people don't care about other's rejection because they believe in themselves and they'll contribute their rejections to other factors.
For instance, if a man fails his online business and people reject him that making money online is impossible. He won't care about the rejection because he knows and believes in himself - Online business works, his failure is just because he uses wrong way to do it.
So he will find other ways and keep trying until he finds the way out. He contributes people's rejection to they don't know about how online business works. And he contributes his failure to using the wrong way.
Therefore, he tries and tries with other ways such as change the SEO strategies and create new series of newsletters.
This is how successful people achieve great achievement.
Success is a matter of number of tries.