The Key Difference Between Men and Women: Biological Standpoint
What is the difference between men and women?
We men always wonder why women are so different than men. When we are interacting with them, we can notice they always see things from different perspectives than us.
If you really listen what they said and observe their behaviors, you can notice that many times their words and behaviors are not congruent. Women always say this, but do that.
You may heard before that one of the differences between men and women is men think logically, but women think emotionally.
You may ever meet situation that women do things illogically, and make you suffer for that. For instance, your girlfriend suddenly ignores you for several days, and you don't know what was happened. So you try to analyze why she acts this way.
Chances are, you don't have clues what was happened. You are so confused, in order that it influences your emotions for whole day. If the case is even worse, you may act needy and clingy - call her many times, ask her why she is in bad mood, and blame her why doesn't want to tell you what was happened.
And this backfires your love relationship. Oh my god.
The real situation is, men don't understand women. Did you ever heard women say "I just want someone who understands me."?
Women act emotionally and illogically. But they secretly hope their men can understand why she is so insecure inside. Women want a sense of safety and insecurity.
However, in most cases, those exact women don't even understand themselves so clearly. They want to be understood, but they don't really understand themselves.
Yes, it's so conflict and counter-intuitive.
Before I continue further explain the difference between men and women. Lets see a joke first.
Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner. I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it. Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much.
I asked him what was wrong; He said, 'Nothing..' I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving. I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.'
When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV. He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed. But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep; I cried. I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else. My life is a disaster.
Motorcycle won’t start…can’t figure out why.
Hahaha. Even though it's a joke, but it's so true.
Women are emotional, and they don't really know what they want. They can be moody but don't really know what is the cause.
Therefore, if you understand women, then you have almost a superpower over them.
The problem is women are not easy to understand. But once you get the basics down, it gets pretty simple.
The difference between men and women
First of all, you need to internalize this idea in your mind - women are different creature compare to men.
It's not only that men are logical and women are emotional. An intelligent woman can handle her emotions and think logically like men. It's more deeper than that.
You can't try to understand women by thinking from men's perspective. You can't think from your shoes. The real situation can be very different from your thoughts, because women's mind is wired differently compare to men.
The human's brain can divide into three brains - reptilian brain, mammalian brain and intelligence brain. The mammalian brain and intelligence brain are no difference between men and women, the difference between men and women is their reptilian brain (reptilian brain performs at instinctual level).
According to evolutionary biology, the reptilian brain between men and women is wired differently. From biology standpoint, men can produce millions of sperm at once but women can only produce one ovum at once.
So men's reptilian brain wired in a way that men need to spread their seeds in as many women as possible; women wired in a way that they need to choose a man who can ensure the survival chances for her and her child, because women have higher risks when comes to choosing a spouse.
That's why women tend to play hard to get.
Although this doesn't apply in our age that a man can only marry a woman. But this has lead women to think in a very different way than men in a lot of things.
To deal with women, you have to think counter-intuitively.
Due to the different reptilian brain men and women have, men and women act in different ways, "Men are logical and women are emotional" is one of it.
Women's reptilian brain is wired up differently than men. In my free ebook I have explained generally there are 4 instincts shape her reptilian brain to think in certain ways. Read it if you haven't.
Although women have a same reptilian brain, but don't forget that they still have mammalian brain and intelligence brain.
Intelligence brain performs at intellectual level. Their intelligence brain can grow according to their growth path, past experiences, beliefs, etc. Once their intelligence brain grows to a level, they can control their mammalian brain, which is performs at emotional level.
Therefore, a mature woman can be logical as men, and a woman doesn't must be emotional. This depends on their growth and life experience.
However, when a woman falls in love with you, she will remove the guard and be emotional again.
Once you understand the difference between men and women - the reptilian brain, you can make women want you, attracted to you, and won't be confused in love relationship.
Over to you
So if a woman is emotional because of you, she has a feeling for you. Not sure what is that, positive or negative, but you have high chance success with her.
Don't try to understand a woman, just love her. Because women are crazy, they are emotional.
About the author
Rio Yee is the Founder of WealthyLoveLife and is super passionate about helping people change their mind and take action to improve your important areas in life such as dating & relationships, personal finance and productivity.