People change over time, be either better or worse.
Even if you are great you might get worse later if you don't care and respect yourself.
If women find you are or become unattractive, due to the mate choice copying effect, there will be more women find you are unattractive. You might get dumped afterward.
The key to keeping women is improving yourself constantly. No excuses at all.
#2. Change the way you treat her
The second step is you want to change the way you treat her.
If you want to avoid the friend zone, then stop treating her like a friend.
Treat her like a friend is the act that you force yourself to enter the friend zone. And once you entered the friend zone, it's hard to step out from it.
Not to mention that pretend as her friend but inside you actually want more than it is dishonest on your part. A healthy relationship is base on honesty and empathy.
You also have to never be a nice guy. That means you'll never buy her flowers, gifts, drinks, and be her driver. You'll never pursue her and confess your feelings to her.
Instead you want to be a bad guy. That means you are mysterious to her, you don't pursue her, you don't need her approval to do things, you are decisive, you are the leader, you are assertive, you are humor and cocky, you are emotionally stable.
Simply put, you are a challenge to women.They'll be attracted to you because you aren't cheap.
Many guys have a wrong mindset about women, they unconsciously make critical mistakes with women due to the limiting beliefs.
Eliminate these limiting beliefs is very necessary.
Some beliefs shape one's mind to be a nice guy. Some beliefs make guys don't believe they deserve to have the love they want. Some beliefs make them anxious and not confident around women. See: The confidence that attracts women.
These limiting beliefs will unconsciously hold you back to a position that makes you unfavored by women. You have no excuses to let these false beliefs make you stuck with your dating life.
For your better understanding, below is the summarization of step 2.
- Stop treating her like a friend - Stop being a nice guy - Behave like a bad guy
It's not hard to avoid the friend zone. With these two steps - 1. Be attractive 2. Change the way you treat her - I guarantee you'll attract women to want you naturally.
However, you can't miss out any step of it. If you don't be attractive, nothing will happen even if you treat her properly.
Same thing, if you don't change the way you treat her, she will never want to have a relationship with you even if you are attractive.
Follow these two steps you will be welcoming the love life that you always wanted. '
Rio Yee is the Founder of WealthyLoveLife and is super passionate about helping people change their mind and take action to improve your important areas in life such as dating & relationships, personal finance and productivity.